Mediation on Monday 16th August
I have a 22 month old son and his father is taking me to mediation. Why I'm not too sure! I think he is wanting him every second weekend for overnights. At the moment he gets him every 3rd weekend, 1...
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Hi there Shikan and welcome. I can't actually offer much advice on mediation, I am afraid, but I think that tantrums and behaviour could be related to him being either unsettled being in a different...
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I went through pregnancy alone but never did the mediation thing. My ex did have quite irregular contact when my daughter was a baby and it's only since she turned 5 that he has her for regular...
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Hi Shikan,I note that you posted late at night and I want to say to you, try to keep your anxieties under control, mediation in itself can be a long drawn out process, or a one-off, but please do not...
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Hi, And thank you so much for your input. I know I am stressing and yes up late trying to get as much info under my belt as possible! Mary I have been seeing a phycologist for the last 6 weeks, for...
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Shikan, I can relate to the late night thing. My ds's dad used to tell me that ds slept from 7pm to 7am and never wake up, What nonsense!!! Ds was a breastfed infant and has health issues which meant...
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Hi Mary, My ex initiated the sleepovers, they first started in Feb my ds was 16 months it was meant to be a trial on a monthly basis, but he soon pushed me into every 3 weeks! now wanting every 2nd!...
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Hi Shikan, Best of luck with today mediation session.I should point out to you that mine is one of those unusually unpleasant cases, not typical, but full of "issues".All kids are different, and this...
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Hi, sorry I have not been offer any advice at this point, but I just wanted to wish you luck for today. Take each step as it comes and just breath. You will be fine!
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My dd has a weekly overnighter with her dad now and I'm not particularly happy about it. I admit that I'd rather have her all to myself! But they do have a good bond now and she seems happy to go, so...
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Shikan, thinking of you . Hope it went well for you today.
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Hi Girls, Im so sorry I have not been on line in ages... Thank you so much for your well wishes Mediation got cancelled as I arrived as the councilor was sick. I have since done my one on one meeting...
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Hey, great news! Thanks for sharing. Do not, feel bad - we are here to share and care, each at our own speed.These things are usually more scary because of the unknown element before they happen - you...
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Glad to hear that you are feeling a lot more relaxed about it all now! Your ds is a lucky boy to have you act in his best interests.
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GF's may come & go, but YOU will always be ds's mum and no-one can change that fact!Absolutely, very true.
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Thanks for coming back and updating us Shikan - being the best Mum for your boy is the only thing you can really control, no matter how much effort we put into others. It sounds like you are in a...
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